For one Fort Worth family July 4th was a day to ask –why after an Air Force veteran was found shot in the head in the parking lot of a BYOB club.   51 year old Lawrence Millender a former Air Force Staff Sergeant, was found shot in the head in the 5100 block of East Rosedale hours after his mother dropped him off at a friend’s house in a different area of Fort Worth. Millender had been married for only five months and now his window is crushed. Her son says she was different when she met Lawrence.  Anthony Brooks served with him and says he misses his friend.  Fort Worth police said they were investigating the crime and had no new information about the case.